Considering a boudoir session? Already booked and trying to figure out the next step?

First of all, I just want to say that I am SO frickin’ proud of you. My heart belongs to a world where women don’t feel less-than because they’ve compared themselves to someone in a beauty magazine, or that woman in the yearly Victoria’s Secret Fashion Show. It belongs to the women who want to celebrate where they are in this moment. To the mamas whose bodies have created life, the mamas who have loved and lost. To the women who have suffered from the ravages of domestic abuse, divorce, or simply need their voices to be heard.

Whatever reason you want to celebrate yourself – confidence, healing, empowerment, a gift for your love – I am so here for it.

Preparing For Your Boudoir Session

1. Do Things That Make You Feel Pretty.
   Get your hair colored. Get a manicure & pedicure. Buy some new lipstick. Use that face mask you’ve been eyeing. Or just simply stay home and get some rest. In the week leading up to your session, make sure you do all the things that make you feel rejuvenated & the most confident about your appearance.
   
   
2. . Plan Your Wardrobe
   Decide what you’re going to wear at your shoot, but also what you will wear to your shoot. You’ll want loose-fitting clothing to wear to your appointment, so you don’t have any indentations from the elastic on your skin when it comes time for your photos. (This means AVOID wearing socks to your appointment!)
   
   
3. Get Comfortable With Your Photographer (Heyyyyy!)
   Communicate all your fears, anxieties, and hang-ups with me ahead of time. I send every boudoir client a questionnaire that goes over these things, and asks questions to help me get to know you better. We’ll also schedule a call about a week before your session to chat. The more you communicate, the more comfortable you will feel and the better your images will turn out.
   
   Call me! Lets chat. The conversation doesn’t have to be all about your photoshoot. We can talk about your kids, my kids, the Christmas present your Mother in Law got you, that one coworker who is annoying – anything!
   
   
4. Don’t Make Any Sudden, Last Minute Changes
   Been thinking about a spray tan? Or a Brazilian wax? That’s great! But just don’t do it right before your session, or even a few weeks before. It’s best not to try anything super new that could leave you dissatisfied.
   
   
   

What To Wear

First of all – Treat Yo’ Self.

Pick things to wear for the photos that make you feel sexy. This doesn’t necessarily mean you need all lingerie either. What makes you feel amazing?

I suggest bringing a variation of the following combinations:

• One piece set (bodysuit, fitted slip dress or even a bathing suit works!)
• Two piece set (bra/undies, high-wasted skirt/bra, garter belt set/bra/stockings)
• Cover up wrap/shawl/cardigan/jean jacket/off shoulder shirt
• Something you LOVE
  

I think a cute pair of underwear and bra are essential, and you can build what you pick from there! I can help pick out items but just remember – these pictures are for you! You do you, and you do what you love or what you want!

Some women love wearing their husbands favorite shirt or jersey, and a thong.

Click Here to view Boudoir Outfits I’ve selected on Amazon

I have a client wardrobe with a few pieces in each size, but I usually recommend clients bring a few pieces of their own.

Outfit Tips

DO invest in at least one cute bra/undies set (black is a great option) that makes you feel super sexy and fits your body type.  

DON’T wear anything that is too small and digs into your skin or creates the dreaded “muffin top.”

DO consider normal clothing if you’re nervous about being too revealing, such as off the shoulder tees, cardigans, tanktops, a fitted button-up shirt, or a high slit skirt/dress. Many of these items can be paired with cute undergarments to make a very sexy (but less skimpy) outfit.

DO remember that sometimes no outfit can be the best outfit. Some of my favorite images were photos taken when my client wasn’t wearing anything clothing-related, and simply covered up with a white sheet, towel, pillow, or a prop (sheet & furs provided in studio). 

DON’T feel like you have to drop a ton of money on new items for your shoot. Although it can be nice to have one really elaborate piece of lingerie, we can create stunning images with the items you already have in your closet and affordable pieces from amazon.

DO consider accessories. Pearls, long necklaces, gaudy costume jewelry, hats, fishnets or sheer black hose, and most importantly–cute shoes!! High heels are a nice way to extend the length of your legs. But also – again – remember this is for you, so if you’re a barefoot kinda gal, go for it. I love being barefoot and natural.

DON’T’s include – busy patterns, neon colors and costumes

Remember

You are beautiful.

You are valued.

You are worthy.

You are strong.

You are brave.

You are badass.

You are enough, as you are, in this moment.